Bari’s Recommended Resources
Here are several books that Bari frequently recommends for clients in both her workshops and one-on-one consultations:
Relationship Issues
- Anger: The Misunderstood Emotion (Tarvis)
- Divorce Busting (Weiner-Davis)
- Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love (Markman, Stanley, and Blumberg)
- Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples (Hendrix, Harville)
- Keeping the Love You Find (Hendrix, Harville)
- Love Is Never Enough (Beck)
- Male and Female Realities: Understanding the Opposite Sex (Tannenbaum)
- Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus (Gray)
- Of Course You're Angry (Warden/Rosellini)
- Passionate Marriage (Schnarch)
- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (Covey)
- The Good Marriage (Wallerstein)
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Gottman)
- We Can Work It Out (Notarius/Markman)
- Why Marriages Succeed or Fail and How You Can Make Yours Last (Gottman)
- You Just Don't Understand (Tannen)
- Is it love or is it addiction? (Brenda Schaeffer)
- Facing Love and Addiction (Pia Mellody)
Family and Parenting Issues
- Adolescence: The Survival Guide (Fenwick and Smith)
- Best Friends, Worst Enemies: Understanding the Social Lives of Children (Thompson, Grace, and Cohen)
- Divorce and New Beginnings (Clapp)
- Fathers and Adolescents (Shulman and Seiffge-Krenke)
- Get Out of My Life, But First Could You Drive Me and Cheryl to the Mall? (Wolfe)
- Help Me, I have a Teenager!! (Drake)
- “I’m Not Mad, I Just Hate You”: A New Understanding of Mother–Daughter Conflict (Cohen-Sandler, and Silver)
- Parents Who Love Too Much (Nelson)
- Positive Discipline for Teenagers (Nelson and Lott)
- Raising Cain (Kindlon)
- Raising Responsible Teenagers (Myers)
- Rebel Without a Car: Surviving and Appreciating Your Child’s Teen Years (Mednick)
- Reviving Ophelia (Pipher)
- The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families (Covey)
- Simplify Your Life (with Kids) (St. James)
- Uncommon Sense for Parents with Teenagers (Riera)
